I was surprised today to learn that one of my acquaintances had started dating a woman he kept going to see at a massage studio. In fact, his wife has moved out of his house, and he has set up a an apartment for the new girlfriend. Not sure if this includes the two children she is supposed to have. He is now bringing her to parties and introducing her to his friends as his girlfriend.
This man has an extremely good job, is very well paid, and is a reasonable person. He has endured an unhappy marriage for a long time, and recently had been going on junkets to Asia and enjoying the brothels in southern China. Initially, when he started doing this, he told me he felt rejuvenated. No kidding!
Anyway, this got me thinking. Does it make sense to consider that girls at the massage studio could make good wives? Well, think about it. You, the client, get to know them well. You talk to them during the massage, and if you are lucky, you get to have an exciting experience with them towards the end of the massage. But I have often said that these girls are human and have real needs like everyone else. It is possible to become friends with these girls. Good friends. And the best part is that you are already having sex with them. If during the experience they get snarky with you, you will learn that they have a bad temper and are to be avoided. Or, you can get to know them in terms of their dreams, and values. You can help them achieve their dreams, and they can help you too!
And that really is what it is all about. I will ask my acquaintance about this new relationship next time I see him, but I understand that he has been seeing her for a couple of years. Maybe she was just what he was looking for, he was just what she was looking for, and they have had the time to get to know each other, as well as any couple doing the dating thing.
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