Anonymous asked: My girlfriend is cute but doesn't go to the gym, she's starting to gain weight and her ass isn't as toned anymore, is there a way I can suggest she hit the gym without getting her ire?
First off - You should appreciate your gf just the way she is. I’m going to give you a suggestion but just know deep down that I feel trying to manipulate her is wrong, but even worse would be you approaching this the wrong way and potentially hurting her feelings or ruining your relationship due to a misunderstanding.
First, go to her dresser or closet and find something that “used” to fit her well and check the size. Now, go shopping and buy her an outfit or article of clothing in that size. Something you KNOW she will love. Next, get that shit gift wrapped, and buy her flowers and tell her you have a surprise for her for the weekend. Book a date out at a nice theater or something cool and when she opens the box she will be elated, but upset because IT DOESN’T FIT.
This is where you need to be the best bf ever and reassure her you LOVE HER just the way she is and you can return it for a bigger size. Then, tell her to put on something different that makes her feel beautiful and take her out on the date.
The next day BUY HER FLOWERS and when you give them to her tell her that you couldn’t stop thinking about how you got the wrong size and that you love her and want her to know she is beautiful.
More often than not the simple act of acceptance can galvanize someone’s desire to make a change. If during the course of this she brings up going to the gym DO NOT jump on it. Just be like, “Well baby if that’s something you want to do that would be great, I’d love to be able to go workout with you. It would just be one more way for us to spend time together.”
Look, that’s how I would handle it if I had a gf I wanted to encourage to go to the gym without seeming like an insensitive dick. While you may want her to work out, she may just be comfortable in your relationship and not think that you’re disappointed with how she looks and takes care of herself.
Hopefully you’re a virile male specimen because if you’re not and you’re asking this question you’re a jackass. Just sayin’. Editor's note: Hopefully your ass isn't getting too big either or you should both go to the gym!
Note: If you would like to view a different perpective on this issue, read The Pecker Helper Handbook
Note: If you would like to view a different perpective on this issue, read The Pecker Helper Handbook
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