The Choice: an affair with a married woman, or an escort.

Here is a good choice. And a difficult one as well.  Both guarantee sex,  but one you will have to pay for, and the other, well, you might have to pay for it too!

Having been in both situations, my preference would be to choose to have sex with the escort over the married woman.

There are a bunch of reasons for this.

For one thing, the escort will usually be available when you want her, whereas the married woman will have to work around her husband and her family.  You can also have a variety of escorts to choose from, and if one isn't available, another might be.   Try doing that with a married woman!  Not gonna work.

Depending on the day, the married woman may or may not be in the mood for sex, whereas the escort will likely be more available.  Of course this is not guaranteed, because she might be with another client, or might even be having a bad day!  After all, she is human too!

There is less romancing with an escort.  There is nothing wrong with romancing an escort.  She will love it and your worth to her will also rise because you will be looking after some of her needs.  For all you know, you are the only guy who does anything like that and that makes you stand out from all the other people.

On the other hand, with the married woman, depending on how the situation developed, you might have to continually romance her just to let her know that you are interested. And she may demand that  Lunches, movies, dinners, gifts, and other little things to make sure that you can get what you want.  And what if the frequency of what you want is not there?  Did I say you will pay the escort?  Don/t think for a moment that you will not be paying the married woman!  It might be more costly than the escort in the long run. Just ask Paul McCartney:  Thirty million for five years of sex.  Elliot Spitzer would have paid less for his escort at $ 5,000 a night over the same period.  And I will bet he had a much better time.

That's another thing:  the escort has the training and experience to do all those quirky little things that the married woman might not feel inclined to do unless of course she has been trained by her husband.

And what if you fall in love with the married woman and move in with her, (after she leaves her ralationship)?  Try and go out alone without her and take note of the questions:  "Where are you going?, Who are you going to be with? When will you be back?"  Remember, this is a woman who got you through a cheating relationship.  She already knows you have weaknesses.   It will be an uncomfortable situation for sure.

So:  interesting choice but the escort would be the better choice in most cases, and the least stressful.